Be sure to subscribe to our feminine power blog and money work newsletter!
The Roles You Were Given Are Costing You More Than You Know
The Problem:
You were taught to be grateful for what you’re given.
To be helpful. Accommodating.
To prioritize everyone else’s needs above your own.
From career choices to pricing your offers, the helpmate narrative has quietly shaped your entire relationship with success.
❌ You shrink your goals to avoid “being too much”
❌ You take on unpaid emotional labor in your business
❌ You select flexible jobs that pay less—just in case
❌ You doubt your ability to lead, charge more, or step fully into your gifts
This isn’t your fault.
But it is your responsibility to break the cycle.
My Story
From Over-giver to Sovereign Seller
I’m Mika B.—founder of The Selling Sanctuary, owner of a property maintenance company, and creator of this guide.
I’ve lived the helpmate script for years as a Christian. I over-delivered, undercharged, and hid behind perfectionism and people-pleasing for years.
Not because I lacked strategy—but because my body didn’t feel safe being seen, heard, or wealthy.
This guide is what I wish I had in my own unlearning process.
It’s soft, powerful, trauma-informed, and designed to help you return to yourself and rewrite the stories that no longer serve your success.
Are You Tired of Living Paycheck to Paycheck?
Access Your Free Mini Guide to Learn How to Change Your Mind to Receive More Money!